Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Update on the Good Life!

Happy March, all!
Sorry for the delay again. We've just been ridiculously busy with work and school and school and work and work and school….and work….and school…..
            But I wanted to take a minute really quick and give you all an update on our little world! Tyrel’s job is moving us to London. Yeah. Wild. When, you ask? So far the best estimation we’ve been given is “sometime this year, though possibly next year.” Honestly, it all just depends on how the company does over the next few months. Sending employees out to another country in order to build a new branch up from nadda is not something any company wants to go into blindly, so I respect the uncertainty. However, I’m also going absolutely crazy due to said uncertainty, because it makes planning our ‘life’ in general nearly impossible. I can’t have a pet, which is nonsense, because transporting said pet from one country to the next, or at least the steps in order to do so, is ridiculous. Did you know that in order to take a pet to Europe, the pet needs to have its own passport? With a picture and everything? And such and such shots need to be administered no more or less than 6 months before leaving the country, and such and such shots need to be administered within 24 hours of the flight, la-de-dah…it goes on. It’s intense.
Not knowing when all this is happening is also seriously messing with any concrete plans we could have about where we’ll be in 5 years, and what we’ll be doing, when babies are a good idea, where our house will be, IF our house will be, and all that. I’m a person who LOVES to make lists and follow them as best as I possibly can. I make a list every morning, even if it’s as silly as “1, brush teeth, 2, exercise, 3, take a shower, 4, get dressed,” etc. I love planning ahead. With our life so tied up with this moving though, and with us having almost NO idea of when that will be, I feel like I’m permanently in limbo. I can’t describe the stress my list-making brain is going through. -_-
Speaking of stress, MIDTERMS!!  Because of the move potentially being sometime during when fall semester would be, I’ve had to expedite my schooling in order to cram the rest of my degree into this and summer semesters. Thus, I am now wading through 21 credit hours. That’s at least 42 hours of homework every week, plus my work schedule of about 20 hours per week. I hate it. Today I had a dandy old breakdown about it, and my husband was INCREDIBLE. He held me, offered me ice cream and French fries, offered to let me play with his favorite gun (SO sweet), let me cry on him, tried to help me prioritize what was stressing me out and make a list with me (that was one list I DIDN’T want to make), and finally gave me a priesthood blessing to help my brain cope with everything that’s going on.  He’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. Truly. I have no idea how I got so lucky.
Tyrel, as always, is working hard in his job, and is one of the biggest reasons that this future branch in the UK is even a possibility. I’m so proud of him.

And that’s our update for now! Have a wonderful day!

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